>5 year olds have no sexual instincts. NONE.
Both of you are right and wrong.
The two neighbour girls adored me, and it seemed when in the mother's care, I had them most of that time. I was 'Uncle' and I would never and could never touch them, I had this feeling of protecting them.
Anyway, when the younger one was 4, she was on my lap, slipping off, I re-sitauated, and she said "touch my teetee"
My legs turned in to a slide, and pushed her down playfully and said "no, we don't do that," she replies by telling me she does sometimes when in bed. I told her that everyone explores themselves, but it's not okay for someone else to touch those parts, they're private.
Point: She did have some sense of sexuality, to the point she knows of someone were to touch her "teetee" it would feel good; but not to the point that if I sat there just doing as she requested, that I may want some gratification out of it as well, and she'd look back on that moment and think 'he was the adult, he should have set me straight and not touched me, what a bad man.'
Children may understand parts feel good; some may figure out that touching you may feel good - but sex is a mutual thing
, which children will not understand. If you're touching one in that way, they'd see it nothing more than a backrub and not think twice about doing anything in return.
I thought by reading back it was that person. But everyone blames Strata even when he's not here. LOL
Edited last time on 11/17/2019 18:05:35.